Today, I’m so honored to host Tammy’s post about rest. In fact, today, I need to heed the wisdom in Tammy’s post about rest. Anyone else feeling a little haggard these days?
Life is busy.
We have demanding careers. Kids to tend to, houses to clean, bills to pay, exercise, organizational projects, and a never ending to do list. That’s not even including chasing a dream, or writing, or anything else that matters to you. Add in social media, blogs, email, friends and family to visit, and I can think of one word: overwhelmed.
I have been there. Lately, I find myself at that place more than I care to admit.
How do we make it stop?
Rest
Who has time for that?
Why is this not a priority?
My Pastor says something that I love:
Change of pace + change of place = change of perspective
For some, this means taking a vacation, or a long weekend away. For me, I have also learned to grab these moments when I can and to schedule them when possible. What does it look like for me?
1. Quiet time in nature – I love to be outside. God’s creation calms me. It soothes my soul. I take time and walk in the forest, or along a river. I get quiet and away from noise.
2. Sit and be still – I love to sit in my backyard. I often write there. For you, it might be inside, or even in your car. Wherever you can sit by yourself for a few minutes. It doesn’t take much time.
3. Talk to God – Getting quiet and spending time with Him is so important. Sometimes I just need to stop talking and listen. We are not used to this. We are constantly talking or listening or used to having noise in the background. This is hard for me if I don’t make this a priority.
4. Intentional time – When I am with my kids, I try to be present. I turn off my phone and distractions and be present with them. While this is hard, I do notice a huge difference when I do it.
For those of us chasing a dream, we may feel like rest is something we can’t possibly fit in. However, I challenge you to squeeze some rest into what you’re doing. Again, it doesn’t have to be an extremely long amount of time. But you need it. You’ll be amazed how God will restore you and give you more energy to tackle what you are doing.
How do you find rest?
Tammy is a wife, Mom, daughter and friend. She blogs about life, marriage, encouragement, and LifeChanger, motivating stories. She loves connecting with people, and rallying them around a good cause. She is learning to live healthier and to live a better story. She’s committed to helping others realize that their voice matters, and to embrace their story. You can follow her on Twitter or on her blog at www.tammyhelfrich.com
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August 13, 2012 at 9:55 am
Thank you for allowing me to hang out with you today!!
August 13, 2012 at 10:30 am
Thank YOU for being here.

Andi recently posted..Sit and Be Still – A Guest Post by Tammy Helfrich
August 13, 2012 at 10:04 am
Ugh, I have such a hard time sitting and being still. When I was in undergrad, I found one of my roommates sitting on a swing. I joined her and asked what she was doing. Absolutely nothing. She was sort of watching the man cutting the grass (without the blade low enough) but she wasn’t doing anything intentionally and she’d been there for hours. I sat down and fewer than five minutes later, I was too anxious and had to go. I said, “I don’t know what I have to go do but I’m sure there’s something.”
Katie
August 13, 2012 at 11:08 am
Katie – I am the same way. I have really had to work at this, as there is always something I could be doing. It is not easy, but so needed! Even if it’s only for a short amount of time.
August 13, 2012 at 10:20 am
Tammy, this is GREAT. LOVE THIS QUOTE-Change of pace + change of place = change of perspective. That is so right on. So well said. I think I needed this too
Thanks so much for sharing it with us all.
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August 13, 2012 at 11:09 am
Thanks, Jim. Those words are my Pastor’s. I come back to them over and over!
August 13, 2012 at 11:19 am
Another great post my friend Tammy
August 13, 2012 at 12:56 pm
Appreciate your encouragement, Pilar!!
August 13, 2012 at 2:04 pm
Just this morning I had a tearful conversation with a good friend about exactly this. My friend’s advice: a true vacation, even though it feels like it would only make things worse. Your post as a sign from the universe that my friend was right. Thank you for sharing!
August 13, 2012 at 2:25 pm
I hope you can get some rest!!
August 13, 2012 at 3:24 pm
I love the quote by your pastor! Just read “The Circle Maker” by Mark Batterson and we are taking our church through the online sessions now. (I assume he is your pastor?) Absolutely amazing confirmations and affirmations throughout that book! About resting…I write…journal…and talk to God. Many times the talking is through journaling. I find that writing slows my thoughts down enough to relieve mental frustration or exhaustion and bring peace and clarity.
August 14, 2012 at 9:07 am
I’ll check out that book. My Pastor is actually Scott Hidge. His blog is http://WWW.iamscotthodge.com
August 13, 2012 at 10:43 pm
I really enjoyed this post. I found myself outside for a long,long ambling walk through our local nature preserve, and sitting down on a dock when I realized that unexpectedly, there were few other people around that day. I just sat and watched the herons and the cranes, ducks, and admired the water lilies, and to my joy, found that lines of a poem started to come to me. I wasn’t thinking of writing, I was just enjoying being alone and silent, watching the natural world and feeling peaceful. I’m trying to do that more often consciously now, though with young children and working full-time, it’s hard to fit in writing in a regular place (I can do it for periods of time) and time, and yet, that’s exactly what I need to do. Your post was like reliving yesterday again for me! A lovely and loving reminder that if I ask, I have to be still to let the answer come. Thank you

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August 14, 2012 at 9:09 am
I love walking through forest preserves as well. I find it hard to make the time as well, but am always glad when I do!